Karma?

Most of the time in our lives... our action/ decision determines the outcomes later... errr wait... our action/ decision DOES determine the outcome!

Headline of newspaper today....

VIP nikah tanpa rekod... read more here...

I couldn't careless about the VIP, coz they are men.. :) when it comes to polygamy, men usually have lots of excuses to do so and 99% is unrelated to the reasons that our religion allows... or else, they won't do it indiscreetly isn't it????

Howeverrrrrrrrrrr........ women on the other hand have the upper say on this... would you or would not??? get married to a married man or getting involve with a married man??!?! *emo sekejap* that's one thing.... the more pathetic and stupid part is, AGREE to get married in Thailand or by illegal bodies?? haizzzzzzzzz.......... why lar think short short onli.. haiyoooo... tlg jgn memalukan kaum perempuan.. tlg jgn letak kaum perempuan di kalangan golongan yg tidak cerdik ituuu... sedeyyyyyyy tau tak!!!!

part of the article..

"Khidmat disediakan sindiket itu mendapat sambutan sebab pengantin lelaki tidak perlu bersusah payah melalui prosedur berpoligami yang agak ketat di pejabat agama atau membelanjakan kos yang tinggi untuk bernikah di negara jiran.
"Bagaimanapun, penipuan sindiket itu terbongkar apabila perkahwinan pasangan yang menggunakan khidmat sindiket itu tidak kekal lama dan terpaksa bercerai," katanya. Menurutnya, selepas bercerai, isteri kedua yang dijatuhkan talak pergi ke pejabat Jawi untuk mengesahkan perceraian dan ketika itulah masalah mula timbul apabila dimaklumkan perkahwinannya tiada dalam rekod atau tidak pernah didaftarkan di Jawi.
"Bila tiada dalam rekod pendaftaran perkahwinan, macam mana nak diuruskan atau didaftarkan perkahwinan? Pada masa inilah bekas isteri terbabit berdepan masalah masalah besar kerana dia tidak berhak membuat tuntutan nafkah dan sebagainya," kata sumber itu.

one more time... men will not take the responsibility.... end of the day, we (women) will suffer... why? because of our action/ decision!! :)

pls think... do you think you'll be granted happiness and prosperous of life IF:
- you 'ruin' the whole marriage institution so that you can have part of his 'dick'?!?! (baby... tutup tinger ya..)
- you disregard your own family especially your mother so that you think you'll be happy with his 'dick'?!??! (baby... jgn bukak tgn.. tutup tinger lagi..)

and pleaseeeeee.......... do you think he'll be a strong person to fight for you and your well-being if he can't even think of his own wife and kids' feeling???

come on women!! you deserve more than this!!!
Leonora